Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
It’s a common saying, and it’s true. However, I have to say that hot is hot. Some people are sexy no matter how they change their look, what they do, or don’t, wear. Gina Gershon is one of those people.
I’m not bi-sexual and I passed the bi-curious phase years ago…but if this woman hit on me…the word NO wouldn’t come anywhere near my lips. Why? I mean, sure she’s slim and she’s pretty, but really. . . it’s more than that.
She has that quality that just makes everything sexy. She broadcasts Sexual Confidence.
I like to think that’s the way Sable is in Gypsy Heart and I know that Devon, in my novella THE CRIB has that quality too. I’ve met one or two people in real life that have that quality, so I know it’s not just the magic of the camera or a role someone plays in a movie.
What about you? Do you get what I’m referring too? Have you ever met someone that just has “it”?
Do you think there are people who just have “it”? or is it a personal chemistry between people that create that spark?
I’d say both… Some people do have "it" all the time, (lucky them ;)) but I think everyone has the potential — sometimes it’s reciprocal chemistry with another that can bring it out.
I’m with Saskia, I’d say both. But yes there is something about Ms Gershon, oh and Eva Mendes. š
Sophia Loren, one of my personal inspirations, has "IT" in spades. Age can’t dim it, either.
I’m with you there, Sela. I feel the same way about Paul Newman. Beautiful then, beautiful now, just… I don’t know. Something about that guy…
And Sophia said, "Sex appeal is ten percent what you’ve got and 90 percent what other people think you’ve got."
I think that it has to do with two people’s chemistry, but I think that sometimes, in the case of the Gina Gershon’s et al. of the world, that chemistry just affects a large proportion of the population. I liken it to poison ivy — something like 90% of humans are allergic to it, which is why it’s "poison" ivy, but to the other ten, it’s just a plant.
There are definitely people that have "it" – I think Sean Connery is sexy as hell and he’s old enough to be my grandpa. There’s just something about him that is verrry sexy.
I agree about Gina, and Sophia, and about Sable. Hot women!
Eva Mendes, Soophia Loren, Sean Connery. Oh yeah. They all have it. Now, have any of you met people in real life that have "it?"
While I agree that once you have IT, you seem to have it for life. But that’s only if you don’t mess with it. Has anyone seen Jessica Lang lately? She used to be beautiful, even in her advancing years. Then she had a (just one?) facelift….and now. Ug !
Gina Gershon is a goddess though.
Hi Sasha,
Not sex on a stick per se, but I do know two people that have that gravitational pull. Everyone wants to be around them, feels uplifted for being in their presence. Okay, so not the same thing, but I wonder what would happen if these same people turned up the wattage for sexual purposes. I’ve never seen them in a ‘predatory’ mode, but going by their affect on people I’d imagine it would be devastating. And quite irresistable.
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I have to say it,..Gina Gershon drives me batty, and not necessarily in a good way. I htink has something all right, but in many of her movies she just looks and acts like a total HO. For me that takes the IT factor away for me.
I think perosnally as far as women go, (famous women) Angelina Jolie certainly has "IT", as well as Ashley Judd, and Charlize Theron. There’s just something about them, Short hair, long hair, innocent character, not so innocent, blonde, brunette, they’ve just got "IT". As far as real life? Well I’ve met one person that had "IT" a man, medium build, not thin or muscular, father of four. People always swarmed around him. He was charasmatic, a little obnoxious, a lot fullof himself, but none of it seemed to matter. EVERYONE loved him,,and yes,..even I had a crush on him. SIGH. Eddie Wagner. Wonder where he is now?? lol
I have met a few people that have IT for me, the first was when I was 14, another when I was 16 I married him, later when I was 21 and 30, the one when I was 21 lasted for a long time, his wife hates me, lol, just can’t seem to get close enough when we talk, good thing he moved to Saskatchewan. Also have met a couple of woman that I could swing the other way for. :blush:
Os~ People screw with things that are already perfect…and look what happens? Too true, I think most people that have IT are naturals.
April~ Maybe youshoudl Google him? You never know. :rolleyes:
Dianna~ You married one! Yay!!!
Briana~While I personally don’t think Chris Noth has it…I can see why some peopel do. SO I guess that means he does have IT right?
As for trying a test drive…I canonly hope ot be able to do so some day! š
I agree. Some people have "it." And with a lot, it gets better with age. Sean Connery, Sophia Loren. I love to watch Humphrey Bogart and Ingrid Bergman.
Cary Grant had it.
Pierce Brosnan has it, as does the ageless Connery.
Johnny Depp has it & doesn’t want it!
Sophia had it coming & going.
Jolie has it.
Gina doesn’t do a thing for me, I’m afraid.
And yeah, I think it’s chemistry.
Have I ever met anybody personally?
No. But if you do, send ’em to my house. š
"Johnny Depp has it & doesn’t want it!"
LOLOLOL Raine!! That is so true.
I think Chris Noth has IT, along with Sophia Lauren.
I have a neighbor who has IT. He was a model too. I think that’s why IT’S make it, because it translates well to page/screen.
I wonder if they are a good as the vibes they put off? I mean what if you found an IT and got a chance to test out the car? What if IT was a lemon? My IT’s have an inherent sensuality that I’d hope would make them sexual virtuosos. Darn, I’ll never know…
I’ve never been interested in a woman. Yeah I think women are pretty or beautiful and if they have a nice ass or tits I can say "Bitch" but I’ve never been sexually attracted to a woman. A beautiful woman to me? Angelina J.