In conversation with a guy last night a very interesting question came up. Well, I found it interesting. He said it was always good for an argument at a party. :laugh:
Anyway…I thought I’d ask all of you and see how much the answers vary. Question is…When does sex become ‘Kinky’? As in What actual acts do you consider kinky? Some people think being blindfolded or restrained is just sexy, not kinky. Some people think an open relationship is weird or kinky. Some people think that nothing is kinky if your in a loving relationship.
What do you think?
😀 in the first diffinition of kinky, it means full of kinks, curvey…hee hee that would make your hair KINKY!
…eccentric, unconventional,whimsical…so again like sexy a mater of taste, kinky to me would be doing it somewhere out of the ordinary, which again is personal, to some anywhere but the bedroom would be kinky. I think being blindfolded or restrained is scarey. :rolleyes:
My hair isn’t kinky, it’s CURLY! :angry:
:hehe: It’s my mind that’s a bit kinky! :laugh:
To some… a feather is Kinky… to others the whole chicken…
Personally, I don’t think in terms of kink, more of things I just WON’T do. But if I was to provide a defination, I would say that Kinky is something I would not Routinely do.
Be glad its not the other way around Sasha, curly mind, kinky hair
:doze:This reminds me of a guy I was talking to yesterday online, he messaged me because he is looking for a married lady for an affair, later he says actually two would be better, one for head one for tail.
Two, at the same time I ask. He then says no silly that would be immoral! :confused:
ROFL…I just love the way the way the human mind works. :crazy:
Well let’s say that I don’t think in terms of kinky or sexy. I think in terms of major turn on and absolutely-freakin-NOT!!! Golden showers not happening. Heck your lucky to get a "tongue lashing" from me after you’ve had a good scrubbing in the shower. But public sex sounds interesting.
I’d say that bondage, blindfolding, food & public sex is kinky. Something that some may percieve is kinky, but I think is gross, are Golden Showers(peeing on someone while having sex. :crazy:).
But I have also had experiences with men IMing me for affairs. I always start discussions on why they are wanting to have an affair and why they aren’t sleeping with their wives, LOL. I had a VERY interesting conversation with this one man.
There are kinky things I would do 😛 and kinky things I wouldn’t 😥
bondage, public sex, toys I’d say yes. 3-somes, body fluids that are routinely flushed and pain or domination would be a huge no. :satisfied: