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I’m drinking a glass of FLAT diet Coke for breakfast, and I hate it. Not the diet coke, but any FLAT pop. My mother, weird Italian lady that she is loves flat pop. :crazy:

Anyway, I was chatting with Cece and Sylvia this morning when I decided flat pop was better than none…and this spawned a discussion on flat things that went something like this.

Sasha: “I’m having a glass of FLAT d.coke now..:angry: UGH! I hate flat pop…but I need the caffiene. I hate FLAT stuff” (me really not a morning person.)
Sylvia: “I’d like a flat stomach.”
Sasha: No shit!
Cece says: Anything BESIDES A FLAT ASS, which is worse than flat coke.

And you know what? Even though I have a big ass, and often wish it was small enough to fit into a size 10 or 12 instead of a 14 or 16, I still like it better than a FLAT ass. 🙂

It’s weird. I weigh more than I ever have in my life right now, but I’m strangely content with my body. Is it age that’s making me feel this way? Don’t get me wrong, I still want to lose 40 pounds, but I’m not depressed or stressed out about it. I still go the gym, but I’m determined to never go back to training or working out 6 days a week like I did when I was in my 20’s. I still let myself eat pizza (but not every day….which is hard when you work at a a pizza place) and drink beer. I HAVE switched from Coke to diet coke, and I’ve cut out chips and chocolate bars. Mostly.

I still have moments of doubt about my attractiveness when I get naked with a man….but I’ve learned that men don’t really care about a few extra pounds if your naked. At least not the couple that have seen ME naked in the last couple years. And knowing that they aren’t freaked by the extra padding makes everything that happens better.

Okay, my babbling post has gone on enough…not sure how I got the whole sex thing…but this post will probably give you all an idea of how my mind works…things almost always come back to sex. Is this normal? Is it because I’m single and in my 30’s, a womans sexual prime? Is it because I write erotica?

They say men think about sex more than women, but I’m not so sure about that. What do you think? How often do you think about sex?

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15 Comments

  4. Danica

    Well, it’s definitely more than that man, that’s for sure! Maybe it is because I write romance, so I think about it more. I don’t know. Either that, or he has them more often than he indicates.

  5. Shayner

    in very GENERAL terms I think about sex LOTS, when was the last time, when will be the next time. damn she looks good in that skirt…. I would think that the thought of sex crosses my mind every 15 min or so.

    Thoughts about the specific acts of sex, once or twice a day

  6. Hollie

    😉
    I don’t think about sex as much as I use to. When I was reviewing I did alot especially with all the erotica I reviewed. I wonder about others but its not a constant thing on my mind. My husband is always trying to get it now but I just say :doze: Im tired…

  9. Teresa

    First I can’t believe I missed the fun on your blog. But Happy Aniversary.

    Now, I’m pretty sure I think about sex a lot more than my dh. But at the mention of the research, and he’s a very agreeable man. 😉

  10. Charlene

    Romantica writer=LOTS of thoughts about sex! It’s so primal and so integral to who we are as people that of course we give it importance in our thoughts. Sure, some people may SAY they don’t think about it… 😉

    Love your thoughts on being comfortable with your body. Early today I was thinking about how thin I used to be in my 20s and that I must have been insane. I like me better now!

  12. Sharon

    Nope, I don’t buy that men think about it more than women, AND I also have never bought the whole stereotype of a man WANTING it more than a woman. You know the man always being turned down by the "not in the mood" woman.

    I’m sure it happens, but it’s not as prevalent as it’s made out to be 😉

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