Since my chronicles of Man 1 have been so well received I figure that I’ll let you all in on the complete hunt.
What I’m looking for: 2 things really. A lover, and a relationship. The thing is, I believe I can find the lover, but I don’t have much faith in finding a serious relationship.
In a lover, I want someone that is casual, that I don’t have to chat with every day or hang out with all the time, but someone that wants more than ‘just a fuck’. I want a friend, with benefits type of thing. Someone that I can call when I need some personal attention, (or vice versa) but won’t make me feel like a cheap slut.
In a relationship…I want it all. LOL I want a man that I can respect and love, and that I’ll want to do anything for, because he’ll do anything for me. Now, DO I believe this will ever happen? I don’t know. Sometimes I do, most times I don’t. But, I’m open to it if the right guy, and the right feelings came along.
What I’m doing to get what I want: I put a personal ad on the Internet. I find it very easy to talk to people over the Internet.
What I WON’T Do: Look in the “intimate” section of the personals. I’ll stick with the dating, and the relationship ones. I’ve also decided not to tell men I write erotica. LOL I’ll be my open and honest self, but I’m going to try to put less of an emphasis on my whole sexual self, until I know that he understands clearly, that a certain amount of friendship is part of the deal.
Click more to read the add I placed.
I’m a part time bartender and full time writer. I’ve traveled all over the world and believe in living life to it’s fullest.
That actually sums up a lot of my personality. There are times when I love people, and enjoy talking to everyone. And times when I just want to cuddle up with a book. I’d like to change the cuddling up with a book to cuddling up on the couch with a man. *g*
I’m looking for someone to hang out with, have some laughs and some good times. Like all women, I would love to fall in love, but until that actually happens, I’m just looking for fun and friendship, with a few benefits. *wink*
I want a real man. I admit it. I love a guy that will open my doors for me, hold my coat for me, but also someone that won’t be afraid wrestle around with me, or throw me over his shoulder and carry me to bedroom. LOL Yes, I know …it’s not politically correct, but it’s what I want.
Someone that is confident enough to be himself, and smart enough to like me the way I am.
I realize that this could take a few tries to find this guy, especially on the Internet, but I’m not into the bar scene, and I’m willing to give this a shot. In order to make this work and not waste anyone’s times, I’ll be as honest as can be…please return the favor.
Ooohh… I like your ad. Your personality comes across through it and it’s very appealing. Good job! 😀 I’ve got my fingers crossed for you.
To be nosey, where’d you place the ad? That could make a difference. Have you triped okcupid.com? It’s not about "romance" or "hooking up". Personally I like their quizzes. Ithink I’ve mentioned that before.
Ohhh, that ad is fantastic. That should attract the right kind. *fingers crossed* I like your terms of the deal as well. 🙂
Great ad, chica! 🙂
Love your ad, Sasha. It’s so open and honest, and fun. I’m very fortunate to have met my man when I was almost 19, and he’s really all I could ask for. (well, I do have my fantasies in my romances. LOL) We’ve been married for 19 years now. It’s been a bumpy ride at times, but a good one.
Lots of good wishes with your ad!
Hugs!
Thanks Ladies. No responses yet. 🙁
LOL
Am I impatient?? :rolleyes:
Thanks, Carol! 🙂
Well, maybe a tad impatient. :rolleyes:
Great ad though. Hope you find a great guy. I met mine when I was 14. Took us a while (read: 9 yrs) to get things right, but we’ve been married for 25 years now (in April). He’s out there. Just be yourself and don’t lose hope.