When it rains it pours.
On Saturday night I had an urge to go out and be among people. It all started with an instant message from Man 1. Not sure if you all remember him from my attempt at finding a lover online a while back? Well, anyway, he said hi and we chatted for a bit. He hinted at wanting to get together and I sorta thought “Hey, it’s been a while, why not?”
However, he was still doing some game playing by saying he had to wait to hear from a friend first and I got the feeling he was just waiting for time to pass so it was late enough that I would ask him over, and not “out”. Remembering his past head games, and how things went…I said, “Well, I feel like going out. so maybe another time.” And promptly blocked him. 🙂
Then I did a really weird thing. I called up one of the younger guys I flirted with real heavy with before christmas. That I haven’t seen since. And he was extremely happy to hear from me. (Made me feel really good !) We chatted a bit, but it was later on a Sat night and he was already out with some firends..so he said he’d call me later this week. (we’ll see if he actually does) and I went out by myself.
I had some dinner shot a game of pool…and came home.
Oh, and I met another guy, a pretty nice guy that night.(Man 2) In fact, I’ve seen him each night since….it’s a bit weird for me, because I’m not used to guys that actually call, and email and ask to see me again when they just saw me. I know I know, my insecurities are showing.
But this guy is really great, he even loaned me a couple of classic erotica novels, and he isn’t just all about sex with me, even though he knows what I write. In fact, I had to ask him to kiss me!! It’s. . .it’s. . . it’s like he’s a gentleman or something!!! :O
And, as much as I’ve enjoyed his company, I still think I’m meant to never be in a serious relationship. I plan on continuing to see him, as long as we keep clicking, but . . . part of me is still the hermit that enjoys being alone.
Strange, I thought when I met a good guy like Man 2 obviously is, my feelings would change.
When you meet the one, that you REALLY click with, that you just can’t stop thinking about, giving up some solitude will be worth it. Until then, just enjoy the company. And good for you for blocking loser 1.
:angry: Man #1 was probably married and didn’t want to been seen in public. Enjoy your time with the other guy, why does it have to be all or nothing.
I’m glad you blocked loser #1, but hope you keep having fun with guy #2!!!
You’re on the right path, I
believe. Good for you; keep it going! 🙂
Thank you! He’s a good guy. I like him.
Sasha,
Life is good when you have to start numbering your…..ummmmm……’friends’ 😀
Good to hear you didn’t fall for loser #1’s mind trick. He just wanted some free sex. Jerk!
It would just be wild to be in the dating world these days, I would imagine. I’ve been with the same guy, my dh, since right before I turned 19. I’m, um, turning 40 on August 1st, so we’ve been together for quite a while. I’m lucky I snagged a good one. As long as he’s not being a PITA. 😀
It doesn’t always happen overnight, sweetheart.
🙂
Os~ I could use neames but I’ma lady. 😉
Chey~ It’s ugly out here in the single life.
Anna~ You mean I have to have patience for this too? :plain:
Glad you didn’t fall for the head games and ended up meeting a nice one. But Grace is right. When you meet the right one, it’ll change everything. 😀
Oh, and I wanted to let you know I just bought Gypsy Heart to read on our vacation next month! It’s taking everything I have not to read it now, but I wanted to have something I knew I’d enjoy for the drive. I can’t wait! (It’s killing me.)
Lynn~ WHen you read Gypsy Heart….think back to this post! 😉
I hope you enjoy it!
Hi Sasha,
I just finished Gypsy Heart and absolutely loved it. I also read The Devil Inside and I loved that one too. I have Meandros, but haven’t had a chance to read it. I really enjoy your characters and I feel like they have some of your personality in them. You will find somebody great for you because you really are a treasure and sometimes they are hard to find. Good for you getting rid of the jerk. And thumbs up for the gentleman. I am also lucky because this July 5th I will be celebrating my 25th wedding anniversary. Who would of thought at 21 I married and am still learning new things everyday. Well it helps reading books from authors like you! Thanks! Just be you!! 🙂
Debbie! Thanks so much for your kind words. I have to admit that yes, a part of me is definitely in both Sable and Gina. I’d love to hear your thoughts on MEANDROS when you’ve read it, it’s quite different than my other stories, but I hope you’ll enjoy it just as much.
Sasha, glad you’re having fun with the new man. Giving up time alone when you’re used to it is hard though. :crazy:
The new guy sounds like a gem! Good for you for ditching the head game player!
Glad you kicked #1 to the curb. As for #2, enjoy your time together, it’s early days yet…. 😉
Good for you for doing what you want, and making your own phone calls! 🙂
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