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Fantasy Sex

I was a bad girl last night, and boy did I have fun! 😛

First part of being a bad girl; Blow off work. So, after wishing my Mom a Happy Birthday, instead of writing (cuz I am behind) I invited a friend over for a drink.

Of course this particular friend is pretty hot, so we had a bottle of wine and chatted some. He properly chastised me for now working out when I say I want to get in shape, then I turned the conversation to sex. 🙂

Sex fantasies in particular. You know, what would you do if there were no limits? This also comes up in the proposal I just finished writing for my next book. I used sex with a stranger as the number one female fantasy. He was no help…he was pretty much , “Sure that sounds good. Let’s try it.” With every suggestion I had. Now I like an eager man…but that didn’t help me research. 😛

So, I’m asking you all for help. Instead of reading articles and researching..I want to know what YOU all have to say about the fantasy thing.

I’m going to list five..(In an order I thinkit pretty close to my own fantasies) Will you tell me what order you would put them in? 🙂

1) Sex with a stranger.
2) Being Submissive
3) Menage
4) Being Dominant
5) Outdoors/public/unusual locations

OH! and in other news…I received the first review for Losing It. Janalee gave it 4.5 hearts…and say’s
“Losing It is by Sasha White. Ms. White has a voice that is distinctive and delicious! It is filled with a keen imagination and strong alpha-type characters. Ms. White never fails to come up with something different and wicked! The sinful word play and inventive storyline creates a carnal haze that envelope the readers – caress their senses. Always powerful – absolutely entertaining!”

WHoo Hooo! You can read the complete review here.

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32 Comments

  2. Sasha

    Thanks, Val!

    Oh, the list is for a full length Single Title, so This girl will be getting all five fantasies (plus some) ..just not sure what order. 😛

    ANd if there’s anything I’ve not listed, that is for you..please, tell me! 🙂

  4. Alyssa

    here goes admitting my tastes…I rank being submissive and being dominant number one for myself. Either or is just as fun…I enjoy a good spanking as much as I love to tie down the hubby. Not crazy about the notion of being caught in public, but maybe of being kidnapped…sex outside, in the park or on the roof? YUM. Sex on a bus? Yuck. And don’t care for anyone watching. More than one man? YUM YUM. More than one woman? Not for me. Good luck figuring us woman out! Post results?

  5. Christy

    Here’s my line up, Sash.

    1. Menage: double the fun, double the pleasure.

    2. Sex with a stranger: no strings, no limits

    3. Being dominant: what can I say? I like to lead.

    4. Sex in a public place: this would kinda go hand in hand with the stranger bit

    5. Being submissive: this would rank lower if I had more to chose from. not into the sub role

  6. Sasha

    I’ll post top three on the blog, and all will be in the novel. It’s tentively titled TROUBLE, and will hopefully be picked up by Berkley. I’ll keep you all posted. 🙂

    I’m looking forward to it..I think this heroine will be getting into Lot’s of Trouble.

  7. terri

    1 sex in public/ unusual places
    2 role playing I guess your dom and sub could fit in here
    3 stranger danger
    4 voyerism
    5 fantasy right? okay the this could be your last few minutes on earth sex.

  8. Melissa

    1. sex outdoors – totally love it under the stars, in the flower garden (all the lovely scents) and in the woods with all the night sounds.

    2. being dominant – love puttiing on the claws and spurs and dragging out the cat o’nine. *shivers*

    3. being submissive – especially when we use the swing or the saw horse.

    4. menage – anything, two guys, two girls, or even two guys and two girls. But have to be people I know/am comfortable with

    5. Say no to strangers – instead I’d like to suggest creative mayhem.

    By creative mayhem I mean using fruit-by-the-foot as straps for light BDSM play, a licorice flogger and different syrups and even icing with cherries. Or it could be dragging out the dropcloth and using easy to wash off temper paints to outline errogenous zones under a blacklight with glow in the dark toys for fun. Also dressing up and role playing is a blast, especially when you add in a mock "photo shoot" with the digital. Got lots of off the wall ideas 🙂

  10. glenda

    3) Menage
    5) Outdoors/public/
    unusual locations
    1) Sex with a stranger
    2) Being Submissive
    4) Being Dominant
    **mild for the last two/some sub and some dom just for variety…

  11. Paula

    Okay, I see everyones list, but didn’t see anyone admit to any of these other then maybe the dom/sub with hubbies part. I admit I have done 4 out of the 5. Haven’t done menage yet. Figure maybe if hubby ever kicks the bucket or leaves me maybe then. It would cram up the marriage if we did it now. :hehe:

  13. Maggie

    Yah Know Sasha…you and I have the same taste!

    1) Sex with a stranger. AS long as he’s good at it and HOT! 🙂
    2) Being Submissive – But no pain involved…:blush:
    3) Menage…two men of course :satisfied:
    4) Being Dominant…:laugh:
    5) Outdoors/public/unusual locations …oh yeah, the whole will we get caught or seen thing…
    🙂

    I’m such a bad girl! Then again, so are we all!

  14. wendywoo

    They’re all pretty well loved female fantasies, aren’t they? Hard to choose between them… 😀

    To be perfectly honest? Any of them, in any order, as long as they’re with Detective Robert Goren… and for the menage, I’ll take Spike as the other man!

    ps. as Goren is a fictitious character, I’d say he pretty much counts as a stranger… 😉

  16. Amber

    If I have to rate the list you gave and not add or delete anything, it would be thusly:

    1 – submissive
    2 – stranger
    3 – in public
    4 – menage
    5 – dominant

    However, I’ve never fantasized once about being dominant; not even one time, so I’d leave it off the list if I could.

    But all the others I have often fantasized about. Btw, I’ve actually done only 1 and 3.

    I’ll add one you didn’t list that is my top fantasy in one way or another and that’s being "forced" to have sex against my will; either by my lover or a stranger.

    I’ve read many lists of women’s fantasies and that one is always right up at the top, although many people get upset about that.

    I have mixed feelings myself about it, because the *last* thing I’d ever want in real life is to be forced against my will, and I surely would hate that some psychopath might read such a thing and think that’s what some women want, and then attack them; yet, it IS hot for me to think about in the privacy of my own mind.

    And from these "women’s fantasies" lists I’ve seen published over the years in magazines and whatnot, it appears to be a favorite for many women. Mostly because I think so many of us still believe there is something "dirty" about having sexual desires. From being told "good girls" don’t do that, and calling promiscuous girls "sluts" in Junior High and High School. It’s hard to let go of that idea on an emotional level for some of us, even when you’re married or in a LTR.

    So the appeal when you’re being "forced" is, you’re not responsible for being so wanton.

    That’s my take on that, at any rate. 🙂

    And CONGRATS on that great review! AWESOME!

  17. Sasha

    Paula ~ I’ll admit to, uhmm, all except one of them too. :blush: I do have other fantasies I’ve not lived out…but I havent; put them onthe list because they’re already in my stories for sure. LOL

    Raine~ You wild Woman!! 😀

    Maggie~ I do think these are the top! The list might grow if/when I acomplish all these though 😛

    Wendy~ Spike is a fictional character too! LOL But you know., I imagine lots of women have him in their fanatsies. I think Being the center of attention betwen Angel and SPike would be so hot. They’d get so competitve, and I’d reap the benifits. :rolleyes:

    Amber~ I thought about putting the forced thing on the list, but decided I didn’t want to get into a huge discussion if someone took offense to it. I’m too tired for that. 😉

    But I do see the apeal of it. Wheather I’d enjoy it or not, or ever let it happen with a lover I don’t know. But For fantasy sake, it is hot. And I think you nailed the reason why. I also think thats why anal play can be such a turn of for some people. It’s the "dirty girl" aspect of it more than anything.

    Hehee, but I remember your thougths on Ambers Anal Adventures. 😉

    People feel free to add your own fantasies to the list. You don’t have to stick to the list.

  19. Marie

    hee hee not to confess to much or anything, but before kids the outdoor/public thing was HUGE tun on. LOL so I’d list that one first. Then the Menage and stranger fight for 2nd they would just tie I guess. I’m not much for the Dom/sub, but Sub would rank higher – I think. ;-D hee hee how about *gasp* old lovers?

  21. Amber

    Being a hooker. That one ranks highly with me too. Of course, that kinda goes into the "forced" category (I’m single-minded that way ;-P) but for a more vanilla aspect, think of Pretty Woman! *grins*

  22. Scorpio57

    I’ve been reading & not commenting until now – just have to get in on this. And I’ve done all of these, some much more enjoyable than others, some "never repeats". Here is my list:
    1. sex in public – it’s the possibility of being seen/caught (and I have been) that gets the adrenaline going
    2. menage – male/female combinations vary with the mood. All are good!
    3. dominant – every now & then I like to be in charge. Not necessarily into S/M or bondage, just control.
    4. submissive – every now & then I like my PARTNER to be in conrol.
    5. sex with stranger – such freedom in knowing you never have to see this person again, lets you/me be/do ANYTHING without limits (as long as the stranger in question is wearing double layered body condoms.)

    And my personal favorite: Up against the wall… (any wall will do.)

  23. Sasha

    Thanks for coming out of Lurkdom Scorpio57. 🙂

    If you like Sex againa wall, you should definitely enjoy my stories, a friend of mine just shakes her head and laughs, "You and your walls." She says , cuz there’s a scene in almost every story with that. It’s sort of…animalistic or something. 😉

  25. Os

    1. Being watched while having sex.
    2. Being tied down and ´milked´
    3. Not so much in public, but quickies in dangerous places…movies, taxi, plane.
    4. In costume with somone else in costume, so neither one of us knows who the other is.
    5. Face-sitting.

  27. Beth

    1) sex with a stranger
    2) sex in public where the thrill of getting caught is as hot as the sex :O
    3) menage with two hot men. Yeah Val! I am so into that. :satisfied:
    Dom and sub don’t really play into my fantasies, but number 4 on my list would probably be:
    4) Having someone watch me have sex – the whole voyueristic thing.
    Okay I’ve confessed enough. You’d never know I was an almost 38 YO tech writer with two kids and a mortgage. :blush:

  28. Annalee Blysse

    1) The outdoors or unusual locations… done that. In car with first love, and the police showed up and sent us packing.
    2) I saw a stranger last night that will feed plenty of fantasies! Was he ever hot!
    3) Menage… especially if it was two guys that looked like that guy mentioned in #2.
    4) Dominant over submissive, but not common in my fantasies either. :doze:

  29. Eve

    What a great review!!! (snoopy dancing)

    Okay, I am extremely shy around strangers – so sex with one? Forget it.

    1. Menage – two guys please.
    2. Outdoors or unusual places – yeah, public? now way.
    3. Fantasy? I’ve always had this rescue fantasy – yeah I know, how sad – but this rugged, handsome, well-built fireman/policeman/ sheriff/knight in shining armor rescues me and … hey, that’s a stranger!? Okay, #3 is sex with a stranger.
    That’s it – I’m not into submissive/dominant stuff.

  31. Dianna

    unusual places, just finished a short story where the couple who just meet occasionaly end up doing it in a change room, nearly getting caught by the sales clerk.
    not to into group sex, dom over sub,

  32. Mrs 26

    Hi hon! Love your list.

    Here’s mine and Mr 26’s. First, for me.

    1) Menage (with another guy)
    2) submissive
    3) in public or inappropriate place
    4) sex with a stranger (way down my list)
    5) dominant (WAY down the list because I don’t have a dominant bone in my body.)

    For Mr 26….

    1) dominant
    2) sex with a stranger (woman)
    3) manage (both ways appeal to him)
    4) public place

    And he hasn’t got a submissive bone in his body. That kinda works out for us!

    Mrs 26

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