I have a voice.
It’s a small voice, tucked way inside somewhere. And if I can get in touch with it, it usually, accurately, tells me the best way to go.
But I can’t always get in touch as I’d like. 🙁
Then I just try to stop worrying, put it off as long as possible, & make the best choice I can.
If it’s a really big one, I write down the pros and cons for each option on paper, and compare them. It helps me think with my head instead of my heart.
I have a voice.
It’s a small voice, tucked way inside somewhere. And if I can get in touch with it, it usually, accurately, tells me the best way to go.
But I can’t always get in touch as I’d like. 🙁
Then I just try to stop worrying, put it off as long as possible, & make the best choice I can.
If it’s a really big one, I write down the pros and cons for each option on paper, and compare them. It helps me think with my head instead of my heart.
When all else fails, I resort to "eenie, meenie, minie, moe".
Works every time, although, not always happily.
First I ask dh’s opinion, then maybe some of my friends. If I still can’t decide, I do the pro and con list too.
I’ve tried pros and cons list in the past, but Sometimes I hate what the lists says so I still flip a coin. LOL
i ask my kids, and if they r wrong, i blame it on them! 😀 😛 :laugh:
I call on my support group; my husband, my 2 best friends, my brother and my daughter.
They run the gamut in age, sex and experience. I ponder what they say, what I feel/think and I let the part that is true for*me* vibrate.
I usually find that the choice has already been made by then. 🙂
I don’t, which is why I’m in trouble so much. 😀
I guess 😛 And pray I just make the right choice. Sometimes the wrong choice IS the right choice and we just don’t know it until much later.
I’m with Cece – sort of like Garth Brooks song "Unanswered Prayers"
In the words of Marilyn Monroe: "Ever notice how ‘what the hell’ is usually the right decision?"